I know LJ is pretty dead for the most part, but I wasn't sure where else to go.
I recently sent a add request on the FB page for Socal Lolitas, but it hasn't been approved. Someone told me I should post here first in order to get an add. I'd really love to be up to speed on events and gatherings in the future, here's hoping someone reads this soon!
A lot of the mods are pretty busy sometimes. I can accept you PM me with your FB page link.
Also I think there is some kind of unofficial rule about accepting only people with photos of themselves. Any photo of an animal, anime etc will be rejected. This is usually done to avoid creepers from harassing the comm since it has happened in other FB communities. Though I don't know if this unofficial rule still stands